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swag-canada:

he’s the one they warn us about in math problems 

swag-canada:

he’s the one they warn us about in math problems 

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yes-this-is-groot:

If you can’t handle me at my Andy Dwyer then you don’t deserve me at my Peter Quill

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nateswinehart:

Being good to each other is so important, guys.

Posted 6 hours ago
It is not possible to be truly balanced in one’s views of an abuser and an abused woman. As Dr. Judith Herman explains eloquently in her masterwork Trauma and Recovery, “neutrality” actually serves the interests of the perpetrator much more than those of the victim and so is not neutral. Although an abuser prefers to have you wholeheartedly on his side, he will settle contentedly for your decision to take a middle stance. To him, that means you see the couple’s problems as partly her fault and partly his fault, which means it isn’t abuse.

"Why Does He Do That: Inside The Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" by Lundy Bancroft

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I have never seen the Neutrality Fallacy explained so succinctly before.

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"We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented." - Elie Wiesel

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"To him, that means you see the couple’s problems as partly her fault and partly his fault, which means it isn’t abuse"

I think this accurate sums up all the false equivalence arguments and “both sides are bad” deflections both on a personal interaction level and larger social violence level.  

The endless investment in finding “something” wrong about the victim is a deflection to rationalized why this abuse or harm or murder isn’t just that - but instead a form of “self defense”.

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Posted 7 hours ago
Don’t forget me. Don’t forget how passionately I love you.
Simone de Beauvoir, from a letter to Jean-Paul Sartre (via violentwavesofemotion)
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